A Practicing Parent

Six Parenting Tips From My S. African Safari

12 Jun 2019
A Practicing Parent
My family and I had an awe-inspiring opportunity to experience a South African safari this month. The animal kingdom is gruesome, inspiring, incredible, frightening and fabulous all at once! With a 14-year old and a 5-year old, my husband and I did not know what to expect, but it was an incredible bonding adventure for all of us. It was also an opportunity to learn some great parenting lessons. As a mom, I couldn’t help but fixate upon Mother Nature’s babies. Whether it was a baby elephant, zebra, or giraffe, we ooh’ed and ah’ed over...
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My Kid Said, “I Hate You”

20 May 2019
A Practicing Parent
I hate you. It’s painful to even write these three words, but when your kid spits them at you, the parent, it’s a blow that reaches all the way to the womb. That’s how I feel. It hurts to hear, even though, rationally, I know he doesn’t mean it. A few weeks ago, I picked up Luke* from school and gave him a snack, one where you have to dip the cookie stick in nut butter or something like that. He ate the snack as we walked together to a doctor appointment a few blocks...
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Being Bored Is Work

13 Apr 2019
A Practicing Parent
“I don’t get it,” Jessie* said to my husband a few years back when he took her to Take-Your-Kids-To-Work Day. “Why do you have these Board meetings?” “What do you mean?” he asked. “Well, they’re boring. Isn’t that why you call them ‘bored meetings?’” Being bored. My children (and many adults) don’t know how to be bored anymore. I can’t even stand on a line anymore without pulling out my phone. I wonder about this and my parenting intuition tells me it can’t be good. “Can I have the iPad?” my 4-year-old son Luke* asked....
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Top-Secret Tutoring

10 Mar 2019
A Practicing Parent
The other day I walked down the block after drop off at my son’s school and chatted with two moms of lower school children. The topic was tutoring. Mom 1: “Listen to this. I was in Mathnasium the other day with my son and there was another boy from my child’s class.  The following day at the school’s morning assembly, I said hello to the mom of the boy from the Mathnasium class. ‘Hey, it’s nice that the boys are getting extra Math help together,’ I said, noticing that a few other parents were listening...
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Independence Starter Kit

06 Feb 2019
A Practicing Parent
My 4 (almost 5)-year-old says, “Mommy” at least 700 times a day—and that’s just from after school until bedtime. Imagine what it’s like on a weekend! He’s never been very good at solo play. On days when he doesn’t have an after school activity, he sticks to me like a barnacle on a whale. But, his teachers tell me he sings a different tune when he’s in school. Am I parenting him incorrectly, or it just one of those things where he acts differently with his teachers than at home? People tell me it’s common,...
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Does Your Teen Mumble Too?

28 Jan 2019
A Practicing Parent
“What? I can’t hear you,” I say to my teenage daughter, Jessie.* We are in the kitchen and I’m rinsing dishes. I turn off the water. Maybe it’s drowning her out. We try it again. I see her mouth move, and then, “Mumble, mumble.”I head to the bathroom to get a Q-tip. Maybe my ears are clogged. The next day, walking on Third Avenue, Jessie gestured, “You know….”The rest of what she said was garbled. “What did you say? I didn’t hear you,”I said. OMG. How many times in the last few days, weeks, months...
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Parenting and the Art of Distraction

17 Jan 2019
A Practicing Parent
Yesterday was like any other day at 5pm. I was making dinner, and my son (Luke), four, was absorbed in his one, daily-allowed TV episode. Me: “Look at you! You’re so cute!” I gushed to my dog Snoopy as she wagged her tail at me. Luke: “I’m cute too.” (I guess he wasn’t that absorbed.) Me. “Of course you are.” Luke: “I’m cuter than Snoopy.” Me: “I am allowed to tell Snoopy that she’s cute. It doesn’t mean that I don’t think you’re cute too.” Luke: “But I’m cuter!” Thankfully, he turned back to his...
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Upper School Pressure

20 Dec 2018
A Practicing Parent
I’ve recently been thinking about the first time I ran the NYC Marathon and what I recall most vividly is this: my fellow runners anxiously discussing their training techniques right before the start at the Verrazano Bridge. “I stretched for over an hour this morning, and used a foam roller to work out the knots in my calves,” said one woman. I didn’t do that. “I’ve been eating pasta for a week and carbo loading for a month,” said another. I didn’t do that. “I did three 22-mile training runs and ran 100 miles a...
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