Past Events 2015-2016

Fall Seminar 2015


Your Child and Online Safety: Communication Matters

By Melanie Wells


Virtually all parents – when they have doubts or agonize over solving a child-rearing problem – share a drive to reach the goal that trumps all others: to “keep my child safe.” The Internet has expanded the territory parents need to cover, and at the October 7th PIA Fall Seminar, attendees received insight and guidance on how best to do so, from Chauncey Parker, Special Policy Advisor in the Manhattan DA’s office; and Liz Repking, Founder of Cyber Safety and Consulting.

Date: October 7, 2015

Time: 7:00 pm - 8:30 pm

Fall School Rep Luncheon 2015

“Money Learning” - Start Early for Financial Health

By Melanie Wells


“We’d rather talk to our kids about sex than about money,” was the quip with which Dr. Melissa Donohue, Founder and Principal of Financial Nutrition, greeted her audience. As the chuckles died down, she reassured them that “what I love about financial education is that it’s so attainable,” likening it to learning to “take care of one’s health.”

Rather than avoid the topic, said Dr. Donohue, parents best serve kids if they initiate clear, direct conversations about money, and the earlier the better. “Money learning is behavior based as well as fact based,” she said, acknowledging the anxiety parents may feel about plunging into what is often – especially among the well-to-do – an emotionally loaded topic. In a presentation blending facts, emotional concerns and sensible advice, Dr. Donohue gave the parents a road map for educating their children financially – and effectively.

Date: October 22, 2015

Time: 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Fall Benefit 2015 with Frank Bruni

Frank Bruni Wows Parents at PIA Fall Benefit

By Pamela Awad

Anyone you know applying to college?

Few situations are as charged as the admissions process, and application mania, while a treatable condition, is a recognizable disorder that afflicts many high school students and their parents. Our preoccupation with elite schools, and how that squares with our definition of success, was at the heart of Frank Bruni’s talk to those attending NYC-Parents in Actions annual fall benefit lunch, earlier this month. “Where You Go is Not Who You’ll Be,” is the title of Bruni’s most recently published book, and his address to the crowd of mostly mothers argued his impassioned stance.

Date: November 11, 2015

Time: 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Teen Scene 2016

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PIA’s signature event, Teen Scene XXX, celebrated its 30th birthday February 1st, reassuring the audience that their kids really are okay - despite the suggestive Roman numeral in the title. With PIA’s Lucy Martin Gianino moderating the articulate teen panel, parents, as always, heard candid talk from the 9th to 12th graders. The consistent message is, still, New York City independent school teens are a thoughtful and savvy bunch, capable of making good decisions, negotiating the shoals of adolescence and moving successfully to college and beyond.

Date: February 1, 2016

Time: 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Fathers Only 2016

Ron Lieber Talks About Values, Finance, Hard Questions and Choices

By John Lloyd


Ron is the “Your Money” columnist for the New York Times and the author of The Opposite of Spoiled: Raising Kids Who Are Grounded, Generous, and Smart About Money. Speaking at PIA’s annual Fathers Only Forum on March 1st at the Dalton School, he challenged the 150 fathers in attendance to engage their kids about finances as a way of teaching their values. The conversation that followed was lively, with topics ranging from how to handle allowance to how to talk about inheritance.

Date: March 1, 2016

Time: 7:00 pm - 8:30 pm

School Relations Breakfast 2016 with Lisa Osherow

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Creating a Consent Culture by Talking to Our Children

By Lori Gaon

How can we educate our children to have healthy relationships and not become one of these statistics? The key, Lisa Osherow explained, is teaching children about consent and communication. Consent concerns more than just sexual activity and therefore, may appropriately be taught to all children beginning at a young age.

Date: April 19, 2016

Time: 8:30 am - 10:00 am

Mother's Day Benefit 2016 with Gretchen Rubin


Becoming Better than Before

By Pamela Awad


Do you eat the fabulous artisanal chocolate bar one square at a time over the course of a week or do you eat it all at once? If you eat it all at once, indulging moderately is unimaginable, and Gretchen Rubin would label you an “abstainer” - it’s all or none - having something only makes you want it more. At this year’s PIA Mother’s Day lunch held Wednesday, May 11, Ms. Rubin talked about the differences between abstainers and moderators, Upholders, Questioners, Rebels and Obligers; all tendencies that have profound implications for making and breaking habits.

Date: May 11, 2016

Time: 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm